And yet — plenty of married people do have long-term affairs while staying in an unhappy marriage. One such adulterer was recently interviewed (anonymously) by writer Samara O’Shea. He discussed why he recently broke up with his mistress and not the wife he claims to have married for the wrong reasons and fallen out of love with a long time ago. The man — married to his first wife for five years and his second (current) for 30 — told O’Shea that he and his girlfriend ended their relationship “because we decided we’d never leave our spouses.” But he doesn’t regret it at all, explaining: So depressing. But why not admit defeat and switch gears midstream? Throw in the towel and be honest with yourself that you’ll be happier with someone else? The adulterer says: All admirable reasons for staying in a marriage, but still — are they enough? What I mean is … yes, divorce is horrible, costly, stressful, pride-crushing, etc. And no one wants to be that divorced person or have to start over (or “make” your spouse start over) in your 30s, 50s, whatever age. But being a two-faced serial cheater or carrying on an affair behind your spouse’s back for years seems so much worse. Plus, you only live once. Not that marriage should ever be treated as throwaway, disposable … But, in the end, if you’re miserable, it’s hard to think of any truly pressing, life-or-death reason to refuse to walk away. In the end, choosing divorce and happiness over cheating and misery just seems to make sense. Do you understand where this man is coming from? Would you ever choose cheating over divorce? Image via AMC
title: “Why Did One Cheater Ultimately Choose His Wife Over His Girlfriend " ShowToc: true date: “2024-09-19” author: “Paul Thiel”
And yet — plenty of married people do have long-term affairs while staying in an unhappy marriage. One such adulterer was recently interviewed (anonymously) by writer Samara O’Shea. He discussed why he recently broke up with his mistress and not the wife he claims to have married for the wrong reasons and fallen out of love with a long time ago. The man — married to his first wife for five years and his second (current) for 30 — told O’Shea that he and his girlfriend ended their relationship “because we decided we’d never leave our spouses.” But he doesn’t regret it at all, explaining: So depressing. But why not admit defeat and switch gears midstream? Throw in the towel and be honest with yourself that you’ll be happier with someone else? The adulterer says: All admirable reasons for staying in a marriage, but still — are they enough? What I mean is … yes, divorce is horrible, costly, stressful, pride-crushing, etc. And no one wants to be that divorced person or have to start over (or “make” your spouse start over) in your 30s, 50s, whatever age. But being a two-faced serial cheater or carrying on an affair behind your spouse’s back for years seems so much worse. Plus, you only live once. Not that marriage should ever be treated as throwaway, disposable … But, in the end, if you’re miserable, it’s hard to think of any truly pressing, life-or-death reason to refuse to walk away. In the end, choosing divorce and happiness over cheating and misery just seems to make sense. Do you understand where this man is coming from? Would you ever choose cheating over divorce? Image via AMC
title: “Why Did One Cheater Ultimately Choose His Wife Over His Girlfriend " ShowToc: true date: “2024-09-16” author: “Cassandra Stewart”
And yet — plenty of married people do have long-term affairs while staying in an unhappy marriage. One such adulterer was recently interviewed (anonymously) by writer Samara O’Shea. He discussed why he recently broke up with his mistress and not the wife he claims to have married for the wrong reasons and fallen out of love with a long time ago. The man — married to his first wife for five years and his second (current) for 30 — told O’Shea that he and his girlfriend ended their relationship “because we decided we’d never leave our spouses.” But he doesn’t regret it at all, explaining: So depressing. But why not admit defeat and switch gears midstream? Throw in the towel and be honest with yourself that you’ll be happier with someone else? The adulterer says: All admirable reasons for staying in a marriage, but still — are they enough? What I mean is … yes, divorce is horrible, costly, stressful, pride-crushing, etc. And no one wants to be that divorced person or have to start over (or “make” your spouse start over) in your 30s, 50s, whatever age. But being a two-faced serial cheater or carrying on an affair behind your spouse’s back for years seems so much worse. Plus, you only live once. Not that marriage should ever be treated as throwaway, disposable … But, in the end, if you’re miserable, it’s hard to think of any truly pressing, life-or-death reason to refuse to walk away. In the end, choosing divorce and happiness over cheating and misery just seems to make sense. Do you understand where this man is coming from? Would you ever choose cheating over divorce? Image via AMC
title: “Why Did One Cheater Ultimately Choose His Wife Over His Girlfriend " ShowToc: true date: “2024-09-26” author: “Tara Flaten”
And yet — plenty of married people do have long-term affairs while staying in an unhappy marriage. One such adulterer was recently interviewed (anonymously) by writer Samara O’Shea. He discussed why he recently broke up with his mistress and not the wife he claims to have married for the wrong reasons and fallen out of love with a long time ago. The man — married to his first wife for five years and his second (current) for 30 — told O’Shea that he and his girlfriend ended their relationship “because we decided we’d never leave our spouses.” But he doesn’t regret it at all, explaining: So depressing. But why not admit defeat and switch gears midstream? Throw in the towel and be honest with yourself that you’ll be happier with someone else? The adulterer says: All admirable reasons for staying in a marriage, but still — are they enough? What I mean is … yes, divorce is horrible, costly, stressful, pride-crushing, etc. And no one wants to be that divorced person or have to start over (or “make” your spouse start over) in your 30s, 50s, whatever age. But being a two-faced serial cheater or carrying on an affair behind your spouse’s back for years seems so much worse. Plus, you only live once. Not that marriage should ever be treated as throwaway, disposable … But, in the end, if you’re miserable, it’s hard to think of any truly pressing, life-or-death reason to refuse to walk away. In the end, choosing divorce and happiness over cheating and misery just seems to make sense. Do you understand where this man is coming from? Would you ever choose cheating over divorce? Image via AMC
title: “Why Did One Cheater Ultimately Choose His Wife Over His Girlfriend " ShowToc: true date: “2024-08-29” author: “David Harper”
And yet — plenty of married people do have long-term affairs while staying in an unhappy marriage. One such adulterer was recently interviewed (anonymously) by writer Samara O’Shea. He discussed why he recently broke up with his mistress and not the wife he claims to have married for the wrong reasons and fallen out of love with a long time ago. The man — married to his first wife for five years and his second (current) for 30 — told O’Shea that he and his girlfriend ended their relationship “because we decided we’d never leave our spouses.” But he doesn’t regret it at all, explaining: So depressing. But why not admit defeat and switch gears midstream? Throw in the towel and be honest with yourself that you’ll be happier with someone else? The adulterer says: All admirable reasons for staying in a marriage, but still — are they enough? What I mean is … yes, divorce is horrible, costly, stressful, pride-crushing, etc. And no one wants to be that divorced person or have to start over (or “make” your spouse start over) in your 30s, 50s, whatever age. But being a two-faced serial cheater or carrying on an affair behind your spouse’s back for years seems so much worse. Plus, you only live once. Not that marriage should ever be treated as throwaway, disposable … But, in the end, if you’re miserable, it’s hard to think of any truly pressing, life-or-death reason to refuse to walk away. In the end, choosing divorce and happiness over cheating and misery just seems to make sense. Do you understand where this man is coming from? Would you ever choose cheating over divorce? Image via AMC
title: “Why Did One Cheater Ultimately Choose His Wife Over His Girlfriend " ShowToc: true date: “2024-10-23” author: “Khadijah Wallace”
And yet — plenty of married people do have long-term affairs while staying in an unhappy marriage. One such adulterer was recently interviewed (anonymously) by writer Samara O’Shea. He discussed why he recently broke up with his mistress and not the wife he claims to have married for the wrong reasons and fallen out of love with a long time ago. The man — married to his first wife for five years and his second (current) for 30 — told O’Shea that he and his girlfriend ended their relationship “because we decided we’d never leave our spouses.” But he doesn’t regret it at all, explaining: So depressing. But why not admit defeat and switch gears midstream? Throw in the towel and be honest with yourself that you’ll be happier with someone else? The adulterer says: All admirable reasons for staying in a marriage, but still — are they enough? What I mean is … yes, divorce is horrible, costly, stressful, pride-crushing, etc. And no one wants to be that divorced person or have to start over (or “make” your spouse start over) in your 30s, 50s, whatever age. But being a two-faced serial cheater or carrying on an affair behind your spouse’s back for years seems so much worse. Plus, you only live once. Not that marriage should ever be treated as throwaway, disposable … But, in the end, if you’re miserable, it’s hard to think of any truly pressing, life-or-death reason to refuse to walk away. In the end, choosing divorce and happiness over cheating and misery just seems to make sense. Do you understand where this man is coming from? Would you ever choose cheating over divorce? Image via AMC
title: “Why Did One Cheater Ultimately Choose His Wife Over His Girlfriend " ShowToc: true date: “2024-08-28” author: “Lana Aguilera”
And yet — plenty of married people do have long-term affairs while staying in an unhappy marriage. One such adulterer was recently interviewed (anonymously) by writer Samara O’Shea. He discussed why he recently broke up with his mistress and not the wife he claims to have married for the wrong reasons and fallen out of love with a long time ago. The man — married to his first wife for five years and his second (current) for 30 — told O’Shea that he and his girlfriend ended their relationship “because we decided we’d never leave our spouses.” But he doesn’t regret it at all, explaining: So depressing. But why not admit defeat and switch gears midstream? Throw in the towel and be honest with yourself that you’ll be happier with someone else? The adulterer says: All admirable reasons for staying in a marriage, but still — are they enough? What I mean is … yes, divorce is horrible, costly, stressful, pride-crushing, etc. And no one wants to be that divorced person or have to start over (or “make” your spouse start over) in your 30s, 50s, whatever age. But being a two-faced serial cheater or carrying on an affair behind your spouse’s back for years seems so much worse. Plus, you only live once. Not that marriage should ever be treated as throwaway, disposable … But, in the end, if you’re miserable, it’s hard to think of any truly pressing, life-or-death reason to refuse to walk away. In the end, choosing divorce and happiness over cheating and misery just seems to make sense. Do you understand where this man is coming from? Would you ever choose cheating over divorce? Image via AMC
title: “Why Did One Cheater Ultimately Choose His Wife Over His Girlfriend " ShowToc: true date: “2024-09-02” author: “Elmer Garrison”
And yet — plenty of married people do have long-term affairs while staying in an unhappy marriage. One such adulterer was recently interviewed (anonymously) by writer Samara O’Shea. He discussed why he recently broke up with his mistress and not the wife he claims to have married for the wrong reasons and fallen out of love with a long time ago. The man — married to his first wife for five years and his second (current) for 30 — told O’Shea that he and his girlfriend ended their relationship “because we decided we’d never leave our spouses.” But he doesn’t regret it at all, explaining: So depressing. But why not admit defeat and switch gears midstream? Throw in the towel and be honest with yourself that you’ll be happier with someone else? The adulterer says: All admirable reasons for staying in a marriage, but still — are they enough? What I mean is … yes, divorce is horrible, costly, stressful, pride-crushing, etc. And no one wants to be that divorced person or have to start over (or “make” your spouse start over) in your 30s, 50s, whatever age. But being a two-faced serial cheater or carrying on an affair behind your spouse’s back for years seems so much worse. Plus, you only live once. Not that marriage should ever be treated as throwaway, disposable … But, in the end, if you’re miserable, it’s hard to think of any truly pressing, life-or-death reason to refuse to walk away. In the end, choosing divorce and happiness over cheating and misery just seems to make sense. Do you understand where this man is coming from? Would you ever choose cheating over divorce? Image via AMC
