We can talk about harmony and compatibility. We can talk about mutual respect and admiration. But sometimes it’s in the little things, the actions people take and ways of being that truly show what love means. Love is and should be in all the details … even the tiny ones. More from CafeMom: 15 Women Share Which Fictional Couples Are Their IRL Relationship Goals That’s a theme within these responses — those little things are all part of the big picture, part of the definition of what makes a perfect relationship. It’s all about feelings, not only toward the other person, but toward oneself — the feelings that are brought out within oneself. These responses can serve as a guide to take a look at a current relationship and evaluate. They can also inspire and bring forward realizations of ways to a deeper love. More from CafeMom: The Way We Cuddle Apparently Says a Lot About Our Relationship Love is beautiful … but not without challenges. It’s always a work in progress and these women certainly share some insight on what makes a perfect relationship. More from CafeMom: 13 Women Confess Why They Stayed Married After He Cheated More from CafeMom: 15 Women Reveal the Pickup Lines That Won Them Over More from CafeMom: 15 Women Share the Moment They Knew They Needed Marriage Counseling More from CafeMom: 14 LOL Valentine’s Day Cards That Nail the Reality of Romance After Kids