Cheating is something you can work through. I mean, if bull-headed Miranda Hobbes could forgive Steve, can’t we all? (SATC references FTW!) An affair, depending on its circumstances of course, seems like an obstacle between two people that can be overcome. I wouldn’t forgive my husband if he had a second family in Arizona or something, but I do think I would be open to forgiveness if his affair was a one-night sorta deal. Of course I’d be devastated (as I hope he would be, too), but there’s therapy and counseling and crying and friends that can mend the tear, and who knows, you could emerge stronger and more in love from the harrowing process. And if you decide to get a divorce then, after the affair, I think it would be an easier pill to swallow than getting a divorce because you’ve fallen out of love. If he were to come up to me and say that he’s fallen out of love with me, that he’s willing to re-enter the dating pool, that he’s gotten an apartment downtown, and that I can keep the house because he just doesn’t want to be around me anymore, that seems way more harsh. I guess because it’s more personal that way — while cheating would kill me, it wouldn’t deflate me as much as someone admitting they’re so over me that they’d like to legally separate from my life. By the way, I’ve knocked on wood after each sentence, because it’s not like either scenario is at all desirable. Ack, I keep going back and forth! Which divorce scenario would you rather? (Knock wood.) Photo via cosmickitty/Flickr
title: “Shocking Study Reveals Why Most Couples Get Divorced” ShowToc: true date: “2024-09-26” author: “Betty Hill”
Cheating is something you can work through. I mean, if bull-headed Miranda Hobbes could forgive Steve, can’t we all? (SATC references FTW!) An affair, depending on its circumstances of course, seems like an obstacle between two people that can be overcome. I wouldn’t forgive my husband if he had a second family in Arizona or something, but I do think I would be open to forgiveness if his affair was a one-night sorta deal. Of course I’d be devastated (as I hope he would be, too), but there’s therapy and counseling and crying and friends that can mend the tear, and who knows, you could emerge stronger and more in love from the harrowing process. And if you decide to get a divorce then, after the affair, I think it would be an easier pill to swallow than getting a divorce because you’ve fallen out of love. If he were to come up to me and say that he’s fallen out of love with me, that he’s willing to re-enter the dating pool, that he’s gotten an apartment downtown, and that I can keep the house because he just doesn’t want to be around me anymore, that seems way more harsh. I guess because it’s more personal that way — while cheating would kill me, it wouldn’t deflate me as much as someone admitting they’re so over me that they’d like to legally separate from my life. By the way, I’ve knocked on wood after each sentence, because it’s not like either scenario is at all desirable. Ack, I keep going back and forth! Which divorce scenario would you rather? (Knock wood.) Photo via cosmickitty/Flickr
title: “Shocking Study Reveals Why Most Couples Get Divorced” ShowToc: true date: “2024-10-20” author: “Leroy Baker”
Cheating is something you can work through. I mean, if bull-headed Miranda Hobbes could forgive Steve, can’t we all? (SATC references FTW!) An affair, depending on its circumstances of course, seems like an obstacle between two people that can be overcome. I wouldn’t forgive my husband if he had a second family in Arizona or something, but I do think I would be open to forgiveness if his affair was a one-night sorta deal. Of course I’d be devastated (as I hope he would be, too), but there’s therapy and counseling and crying and friends that can mend the tear, and who knows, you could emerge stronger and more in love from the harrowing process. And if you decide to get a divorce then, after the affair, I think it would be an easier pill to swallow than getting a divorce because you’ve fallen out of love. If he were to come up to me and say that he’s fallen out of love with me, that he’s willing to re-enter the dating pool, that he’s gotten an apartment downtown, and that I can keep the house because he just doesn’t want to be around me anymore, that seems way more harsh. I guess because it’s more personal that way — while cheating would kill me, it wouldn’t deflate me as much as someone admitting they’re so over me that they’d like to legally separate from my life. By the way, I’ve knocked on wood after each sentence, because it’s not like either scenario is at all desirable. Ack, I keep going back and forth! Which divorce scenario would you rather? (Knock wood.) Photo via cosmickitty/Flickr
title: “Shocking Study Reveals Why Most Couples Get Divorced” ShowToc: true date: “2024-09-26” author: “Paul Wong”
Cheating is something you can work through. I mean, if bull-headed Miranda Hobbes could forgive Steve, can’t we all? (SATC references FTW!) An affair, depending on its circumstances of course, seems like an obstacle between two people that can be overcome. I wouldn’t forgive my husband if he had a second family in Arizona or something, but I do think I would be open to forgiveness if his affair was a one-night sorta deal. Of course I’d be devastated (as I hope he would be, too), but there’s therapy and counseling and crying and friends that can mend the tear, and who knows, you could emerge stronger and more in love from the harrowing process. And if you decide to get a divorce then, after the affair, I think it would be an easier pill to swallow than getting a divorce because you’ve fallen out of love. If he were to come up to me and say that he’s fallen out of love with me, that he’s willing to re-enter the dating pool, that he’s gotten an apartment downtown, and that I can keep the house because he just doesn’t want to be around me anymore, that seems way more harsh. I guess because it’s more personal that way — while cheating would kill me, it wouldn’t deflate me as much as someone admitting they’re so over me that they’d like to legally separate from my life. By the way, I’ve knocked on wood after each sentence, because it’s not like either scenario is at all desirable. Ack, I keep going back and forth! Which divorce scenario would you rather? (Knock wood.) Photo via cosmickitty/Flickr
title: “Shocking Study Reveals Why Most Couples Get Divorced” ShowToc: true date: “2024-10-10” author: “Linda Green”
Cheating is something you can work through. I mean, if bull-headed Miranda Hobbes could forgive Steve, can’t we all? (SATC references FTW!) An affair, depending on its circumstances of course, seems like an obstacle between two people that can be overcome. I wouldn’t forgive my husband if he had a second family in Arizona or something, but I do think I would be open to forgiveness if his affair was a one-night sorta deal. Of course I’d be devastated (as I hope he would be, too), but there’s therapy and counseling and crying and friends that can mend the tear, and who knows, you could emerge stronger and more in love from the harrowing process. And if you decide to get a divorce then, after the affair, I think it would be an easier pill to swallow than getting a divorce because you’ve fallen out of love. If he were to come up to me and say that he’s fallen out of love with me, that he’s willing to re-enter the dating pool, that he’s gotten an apartment downtown, and that I can keep the house because he just doesn’t want to be around me anymore, that seems way more harsh. I guess because it’s more personal that way — while cheating would kill me, it wouldn’t deflate me as much as someone admitting they’re so over me that they’d like to legally separate from my life. By the way, I’ve knocked on wood after each sentence, because it’s not like either scenario is at all desirable. Ack, I keep going back and forth! Which divorce scenario would you rather? (Knock wood.) Photo via cosmickitty/Flickr
title: “Shocking Study Reveals Why Most Couples Get Divorced” ShowToc: true date: “2024-09-28” author: “James Austin”
Cheating is something you can work through. I mean, if bull-headed Miranda Hobbes could forgive Steve, can’t we all? (SATC references FTW!) An affair, depending on its circumstances of course, seems like an obstacle between two people that can be overcome. I wouldn’t forgive my husband if he had a second family in Arizona or something, but I do think I would be open to forgiveness if his affair was a one-night sorta deal. Of course I’d be devastated (as I hope he would be, too), but there’s therapy and counseling and crying and friends that can mend the tear, and who knows, you could emerge stronger and more in love from the harrowing process. And if you decide to get a divorce then, after the affair, I think it would be an easier pill to swallow than getting a divorce because you’ve fallen out of love. If he were to come up to me and say that he’s fallen out of love with me, that he’s willing to re-enter the dating pool, that he’s gotten an apartment downtown, and that I can keep the house because he just doesn’t want to be around me anymore, that seems way more harsh. I guess because it’s more personal that way — while cheating would kill me, it wouldn’t deflate me as much as someone admitting they’re so over me that they’d like to legally separate from my life. By the way, I’ve knocked on wood after each sentence, because it’s not like either scenario is at all desirable. Ack, I keep going back and forth! Which divorce scenario would you rather? (Knock wood.) Photo via cosmickitty/Flickr
title: “Shocking Study Reveals Why Most Couples Get Divorced” ShowToc: true date: “2024-09-10” author: “Betty Moody”
Cheating is something you can work through. I mean, if bull-headed Miranda Hobbes could forgive Steve, can’t we all? (SATC references FTW!) An affair, depending on its circumstances of course, seems like an obstacle between two people that can be overcome. I wouldn’t forgive my husband if he had a second family in Arizona or something, but I do think I would be open to forgiveness if his affair was a one-night sorta deal. Of course I’d be devastated (as I hope he would be, too), but there’s therapy and counseling and crying and friends that can mend the tear, and who knows, you could emerge stronger and more in love from the harrowing process. And if you decide to get a divorce then, after the affair, I think it would be an easier pill to swallow than getting a divorce because you’ve fallen out of love. If he were to come up to me and say that he’s fallen out of love with me, that he’s willing to re-enter the dating pool, that he’s gotten an apartment downtown, and that I can keep the house because he just doesn’t want to be around me anymore, that seems way more harsh. I guess because it’s more personal that way — while cheating would kill me, it wouldn’t deflate me as much as someone admitting they’re so over me that they’d like to legally separate from my life. By the way, I’ve knocked on wood after each sentence, because it’s not like either scenario is at all desirable. Ack, I keep going back and forth! Which divorce scenario would you rather? (Knock wood.) Photo via cosmickitty/Flickr
title: “Shocking Study Reveals Why Most Couples Get Divorced” ShowToc: true date: “2024-10-21” author: “Mark Spears”
Cheating is something you can work through. I mean, if bull-headed Miranda Hobbes could forgive Steve, can’t we all? (SATC references FTW!) An affair, depending on its circumstances of course, seems like an obstacle between two people that can be overcome. I wouldn’t forgive my husband if he had a second family in Arizona or something, but I do think I would be open to forgiveness if his affair was a one-night sorta deal. Of course I’d be devastated (as I hope he would be, too), but there’s therapy and counseling and crying and friends that can mend the tear, and who knows, you could emerge stronger and more in love from the harrowing process. And if you decide to get a divorce then, after the affair, I think it would be an easier pill to swallow than getting a divorce because you’ve fallen out of love. If he were to come up to me and say that he’s fallen out of love with me, that he’s willing to re-enter the dating pool, that he’s gotten an apartment downtown, and that I can keep the house because he just doesn’t want to be around me anymore, that seems way more harsh. I guess because it’s more personal that way — while cheating would kill me, it wouldn’t deflate me as much as someone admitting they’re so over me that they’d like to legally separate from my life. By the way, I’ve knocked on wood after each sentence, because it’s not like either scenario is at all desirable. Ack, I keep going back and forth! Which divorce scenario would you rather? (Knock wood.) Photo via cosmickitty/Flickr
