Problem is, most people are still too shy or just too clueless about BDSM (Bondage & Discipline / Domination & Submission / Sadism & Masochism) to create their own Red Room of Pain-inspired nights. So we’ve enlisted the help of an expert to show you how to bring whips, chains, and nipple clamps into your bedroom. New York-based dominatrix Mistress Darcy (mistressdarcy.com) walks The Stir through how to turn “vanilla sex” into a passion so hot it would make Anastasia Steele jealous. More from The Stir: 15 Sex Tips For Women (From Men) If you are intimidated by the thought if it, that’s normal. Before Mistress Darcy was Mistress Darcy, she too had many reservations. “I thought it was pretty freaking weird,” she admits. But if something about Christian Grey’s sex sessions jumps out at you, “that little tickling in your tummy that’s saying, ‘This is interesting’ is a sign. That’s a flag going up that deep down somewhere that you might actually really be into this.” Though she admits, it’s not always easy for a women to ask her man to get kinky, so here is how to get started. Has Fifty Shades of Grey inspired you to liven up your sex life? It’s a great way to introduce it in the heat of the moment. And what’s he gonna say? Stop! Turn on the lights! Unlikely. “Talk about it afterwards,” she says. “He may say, ‘You know, that kinda really didn’t work for me. I wish I was the one that had my hands tied!’ Or ‘I really loved it. Let’s do it again.’ Or you don’t talk about it and you just keep doing it again and again, bringing in more and more gear every time you have sex.” But there is a right way and a wrong way to spank, she warns. If you just start hitting someone at full force, it’s more likely to terrify than titillate. “I teach couples the proper warmup and get them to a point where the chemicals in their brain take the experience from painful to pleasurable,” she says. “And then, I am telling you, it is possible to reach a state of euphoria from simply being spanked that you’ve never felt before on your first time if you know what you are doing.”
- A proper warmup is essential, especially for someone who doesn’t have a lot of experience with corporal punishment.
- You want to get blood to the surface of the skin because the more red your skin is, the more blood that is flowing, the less it is going to hurt, and the more pain you are going to be able to take. You can rub it, pat it, do light taps, or squeeze. You can alternate between light and harder touches gradually building up the intensity. **Just never leave your tools around for the kids to see. Some of them are weapons, after all. She suggests coming up with sexy exchanges you can even do at the breakfast table that no one else will notice. “Ds is a lot about codes and a language you develop with your partner,” says Mistress Darcy. “You could have it worked out that a certain look means something to you.” For instance, if your husband looks at you a certain way and then looks at something on the floor, that means pick it up and bend down in front of him so he can get a glimpse of your rear. “That kind of interaction can be completely erotic,” she says. “If he taps his coffee mug when it is empty, that means get me some coffee you saucy little minx. Or exchange text messages at work with a key phrase like, ‘I am coming home in three hours and I want you to be ready for me.’ Super easy and super fun.”
title: “Real Life Dominatrix Tells How To Bring 50 Shades Sex Into Your Bedroom” ShowToc: true date: “2024-09-04” author: “Paul Hamilton”
Problem is, most people are still too shy or just too clueless about BDSM (Bondage & Discipline / Domination & Submission / Sadism & Masochism) to create their own Red Room of Pain-inspired nights. So we’ve enlisted the help of an expert to show you how to bring whips, chains, and nipple clamps into your bedroom. New York-based dominatrix Mistress Darcy (mistressdarcy.com) walks The Stir through how to turn “vanilla sex” into a passion so hot it would make Anastasia Steele jealous. More from The Stir: 15 Sex Tips For Women (From Men) If you are intimidated by the thought if it, that’s normal. Before Mistress Darcy was Mistress Darcy, she too had many reservations. “I thought it was pretty freaking weird,” she admits. But if something about Christian Grey’s sex sessions jumps out at you, “that little tickling in your tummy that’s saying, ‘This is interesting’ is a sign. That’s a flag going up that deep down somewhere that you might actually really be into this.” Though she admits, it’s not always easy for a women to ask her man to get kinky, so here is how to get started. Has Fifty Shades of Grey inspired you to liven up your sex life? It’s a great way to introduce it in the heat of the moment. And what’s he gonna say? Stop! Turn on the lights! Unlikely. “Talk about it afterwards,” she says. “He may say, ‘You know, that kinda really didn’t work for me. I wish I was the one that had my hands tied!’ Or ‘I really loved it. Let’s do it again.’ Or you don’t talk about it and you just keep doing it again and again, bringing in more and more gear every time you have sex.” But there is a right way and a wrong way to spank, she warns. If you just start hitting someone at full force, it’s more likely to terrify than titillate. “I teach couples the proper warmup and get them to a point where the chemicals in their brain take the experience from painful to pleasurable,” she says. “And then, I am telling you, it is possible to reach a state of euphoria from simply being spanked that you’ve never felt before on your first time if you know what you are doing.”
- A proper warmup is essential, especially for someone who doesn’t have a lot of experience with corporal punishment.
- You want to get blood to the surface of the skin because the more red your skin is, the more blood that is flowing, the less it is going to hurt, and the more pain you are going to be able to take. You can rub it, pat it, do light taps, or squeeze. You can alternate between light and harder touches gradually building up the intensity. **Just never leave your tools around for the kids to see. Some of them are weapons, after all. She suggests coming up with sexy exchanges you can even do at the breakfast table that no one else will notice. “Ds is a lot about codes and a language you develop with your partner,” says Mistress Darcy. “You could have it worked out that a certain look means something to you.” For instance, if your husband looks at you a certain way and then looks at something on the floor, that means pick it up and bend down in front of him so he can get a glimpse of your rear. “That kind of interaction can be completely erotic,” she says. “If he taps his coffee mug when it is empty, that means get me some coffee you saucy little minx. Or exchange text messages at work with a key phrase like, ‘I am coming home in three hours and I want you to be ready for me.’ Super easy and super fun.”
title: “Real Life Dominatrix Tells How To Bring 50 Shades Sex Into Your Bedroom” ShowToc: true date: “2024-09-19” author: “Phillip Collins”
Problem is, most people are still too shy or just too clueless about BDSM (Bondage & Discipline / Domination & Submission / Sadism & Masochism) to create their own Red Room of Pain-inspired nights. So we’ve enlisted the help of an expert to show you how to bring whips, chains, and nipple clamps into your bedroom. New York-based dominatrix Mistress Darcy (mistressdarcy.com) walks The Stir through how to turn “vanilla sex” into a passion so hot it would make Anastasia Steele jealous. More from The Stir: 15 Sex Tips For Women (From Men) If you are intimidated by the thought if it, that’s normal. Before Mistress Darcy was Mistress Darcy, she too had many reservations. “I thought it was pretty freaking weird,” she admits. But if something about Christian Grey’s sex sessions jumps out at you, “that little tickling in your tummy that’s saying, ‘This is interesting’ is a sign. That’s a flag going up that deep down somewhere that you might actually really be into this.” Though she admits, it’s not always easy for a women to ask her man to get kinky, so here is how to get started. Has Fifty Shades of Grey inspired you to liven up your sex life? It’s a great way to introduce it in the heat of the moment. And what’s he gonna say? Stop! Turn on the lights! Unlikely. “Talk about it afterwards,” she says. “He may say, ‘You know, that kinda really didn’t work for me. I wish I was the one that had my hands tied!’ Or ‘I really loved it. Let’s do it again.’ Or you don’t talk about it and you just keep doing it again and again, bringing in more and more gear every time you have sex.” But there is a right way and a wrong way to spank, she warns. If you just start hitting someone at full force, it’s more likely to terrify than titillate. “I teach couples the proper warmup and get them to a point where the chemicals in their brain take the experience from painful to pleasurable,” she says. “And then, I am telling you, it is possible to reach a state of euphoria from simply being spanked that you’ve never felt before on your first time if you know what you are doing.”
- A proper warmup is essential, especially for someone who doesn’t have a lot of experience with corporal punishment.
- You want to get blood to the surface of the skin because the more red your skin is, the more blood that is flowing, the less it is going to hurt, and the more pain you are going to be able to take. You can rub it, pat it, do light taps, or squeeze. You can alternate between light and harder touches gradually building up the intensity. **Just never leave your tools around for the kids to see. Some of them are weapons, after all. She suggests coming up with sexy exchanges you can even do at the breakfast table that no one else will notice. “Ds is a lot about codes and a language you develop with your partner,” says Mistress Darcy. “You could have it worked out that a certain look means something to you.” For instance, if your husband looks at you a certain way and then looks at something on the floor, that means pick it up and bend down in front of him so he can get a glimpse of your rear. “That kind of interaction can be completely erotic,” she says. “If he taps his coffee mug when it is empty, that means get me some coffee you saucy little minx. Or exchange text messages at work with a key phrase like, ‘I am coming home in three hours and I want you to be ready for me.’ Super easy and super fun.”
title: “Real Life Dominatrix Tells How To Bring 50 Shades Sex Into Your Bedroom” ShowToc: true date: “2024-10-08” author: “Jose Miller”
Problem is, most people are still too shy or just too clueless about BDSM (Bondage & Discipline / Domination & Submission / Sadism & Masochism) to create their own Red Room of Pain-inspired nights. So we’ve enlisted the help of an expert to show you how to bring whips, chains, and nipple clamps into your bedroom. New York-based dominatrix Mistress Darcy (mistressdarcy.com) walks The Stir through how to turn “vanilla sex” into a passion so hot it would make Anastasia Steele jealous. More from The Stir: 15 Sex Tips For Women (From Men) If you are intimidated by the thought if it, that’s normal. Before Mistress Darcy was Mistress Darcy, she too had many reservations. “I thought it was pretty freaking weird,” she admits. But if something about Christian Grey’s sex sessions jumps out at you, “that little tickling in your tummy that’s saying, ‘This is interesting’ is a sign. That’s a flag going up that deep down somewhere that you might actually really be into this.” Though she admits, it’s not always easy for a women to ask her man to get kinky, so here is how to get started. Has Fifty Shades of Grey inspired you to liven up your sex life? It’s a great way to introduce it in the heat of the moment. And what’s he gonna say? Stop! Turn on the lights! Unlikely. “Talk about it afterwards,” she says. “He may say, ‘You know, that kinda really didn’t work for me. I wish I was the one that had my hands tied!’ Or ‘I really loved it. Let’s do it again.’ Or you don’t talk about it and you just keep doing it again and again, bringing in more and more gear every time you have sex.” But there is a right way and a wrong way to spank, she warns. If you just start hitting someone at full force, it’s more likely to terrify than titillate. “I teach couples the proper warmup and get them to a point where the chemicals in their brain take the experience from painful to pleasurable,” she says. “And then, I am telling you, it is possible to reach a state of euphoria from simply being spanked that you’ve never felt before on your first time if you know what you are doing.”
- A proper warmup is essential, especially for someone who doesn’t have a lot of experience with corporal punishment.
- You want to get blood to the surface of the skin because the more red your skin is, the more blood that is flowing, the less it is going to hurt, and the more pain you are going to be able to take. You can rub it, pat it, do light taps, or squeeze. You can alternate between light and harder touches gradually building up the intensity. **Just never leave your tools around for the kids to see. Some of them are weapons, after all. She suggests coming up with sexy exchanges you can even do at the breakfast table that no one else will notice. “Ds is a lot about codes and a language you develop with your partner,” says Mistress Darcy. “You could have it worked out that a certain look means something to you.” For instance, if your husband looks at you a certain way and then looks at something on the floor, that means pick it up and bend down in front of him so he can get a glimpse of your rear. “That kind of interaction can be completely erotic,” she says. “If he taps his coffee mug when it is empty, that means get me some coffee you saucy little minx. Or exchange text messages at work with a key phrase like, ‘I am coming home in three hours and I want you to be ready for me.’ Super easy and super fun.”
title: “Real Life Dominatrix Tells How To Bring 50 Shades Sex Into Your Bedroom” ShowToc: true date: “2024-10-16” author: “Nelda Haught”
Problem is, most people are still too shy or just too clueless about BDSM (Bondage & Discipline / Domination & Submission / Sadism & Masochism) to create their own Red Room of Pain-inspired nights. So we’ve enlisted the help of an expert to show you how to bring whips, chains, and nipple clamps into your bedroom. New York-based dominatrix Mistress Darcy (mistressdarcy.com) walks The Stir through how to turn “vanilla sex” into a passion so hot it would make Anastasia Steele jealous. More from The Stir: 15 Sex Tips For Women (From Men) If you are intimidated by the thought if it, that’s normal. Before Mistress Darcy was Mistress Darcy, she too had many reservations. “I thought it was pretty freaking weird,” she admits. But if something about Christian Grey’s sex sessions jumps out at you, “that little tickling in your tummy that’s saying, ‘This is interesting’ is a sign. That’s a flag going up that deep down somewhere that you might actually really be into this.” Though she admits, it’s not always easy for a women to ask her man to get kinky, so here is how to get started. Has Fifty Shades of Grey inspired you to liven up your sex life? It’s a great way to introduce it in the heat of the moment. And what’s he gonna say? Stop! Turn on the lights! Unlikely. “Talk about it afterwards,” she says. “He may say, ‘You know, that kinda really didn’t work for me. I wish I was the one that had my hands tied!’ Or ‘I really loved it. Let’s do it again.’ Or you don’t talk about it and you just keep doing it again and again, bringing in more and more gear every time you have sex.” But there is a right way and a wrong way to spank, she warns. If you just start hitting someone at full force, it’s more likely to terrify than titillate. “I teach couples the proper warmup and get them to a point where the chemicals in their brain take the experience from painful to pleasurable,” she says. “And then, I am telling you, it is possible to reach a state of euphoria from simply being spanked that you’ve never felt before on your first time if you know what you are doing.”
- A proper warmup is essential, especially for someone who doesn’t have a lot of experience with corporal punishment.
- You want to get blood to the surface of the skin because the more red your skin is, the more blood that is flowing, the less it is going to hurt, and the more pain you are going to be able to take. You can rub it, pat it, do light taps, or squeeze. You can alternate between light and harder touches gradually building up the intensity. **Just never leave your tools around for the kids to see. Some of them are weapons, after all. She suggests coming up with sexy exchanges you can even do at the breakfast table that no one else will notice. “Ds is a lot about codes and a language you develop with your partner,” says Mistress Darcy. “You could have it worked out that a certain look means something to you.” For instance, if your husband looks at you a certain way and then looks at something on the floor, that means pick it up and bend down in front of him so he can get a glimpse of your rear. “That kind of interaction can be completely erotic,” she says. “If he taps his coffee mug when it is empty, that means get me some coffee you saucy little minx. Or exchange text messages at work with a key phrase like, ‘I am coming home in three hours and I want you to be ready for me.’ Super easy and super fun.”
title: “Real Life Dominatrix Tells How To Bring 50 Shades Sex Into Your Bedroom” ShowToc: true date: “2024-10-20” author: “Mickey Allen”
Problem is, most people are still too shy or just too clueless about BDSM (Bondage & Discipline / Domination & Submission / Sadism & Masochism) to create their own Red Room of Pain-inspired nights. So we’ve enlisted the help of an expert to show you how to bring whips, chains, and nipple clamps into your bedroom. New York-based dominatrix Mistress Darcy (mistressdarcy.com) walks The Stir through how to turn “vanilla sex” into a passion so hot it would make Anastasia Steele jealous. More from The Stir: 15 Sex Tips For Women (From Men) If you are intimidated by the thought if it, that’s normal. Before Mistress Darcy was Mistress Darcy, she too had many reservations. “I thought it was pretty freaking weird,” she admits. But if something about Christian Grey’s sex sessions jumps out at you, “that little tickling in your tummy that’s saying, ‘This is interesting’ is a sign. That’s a flag going up that deep down somewhere that you might actually really be into this.” Though she admits, it’s not always easy for a women to ask her man to get kinky, so here is how to get started. Has Fifty Shades of Grey inspired you to liven up your sex life? It’s a great way to introduce it in the heat of the moment. And what’s he gonna say? Stop! Turn on the lights! Unlikely. “Talk about it afterwards,” she says. “He may say, ‘You know, that kinda really didn’t work for me. I wish I was the one that had my hands tied!’ Or ‘I really loved it. Let’s do it again.’ Or you don’t talk about it and you just keep doing it again and again, bringing in more and more gear every time you have sex.” But there is a right way and a wrong way to spank, she warns. If you just start hitting someone at full force, it’s more likely to terrify than titillate. “I teach couples the proper warmup and get them to a point where the chemicals in their brain take the experience from painful to pleasurable,” she says. “And then, I am telling you, it is possible to reach a state of euphoria from simply being spanked that you’ve never felt before on your first time if you know what you are doing.”
- A proper warmup is essential, especially for someone who doesn’t have a lot of experience with corporal punishment.
- You want to get blood to the surface of the skin because the more red your skin is, the more blood that is flowing, the less it is going to hurt, and the more pain you are going to be able to take. You can rub it, pat it, do light taps, or squeeze. You can alternate between light and harder touches gradually building up the intensity. **Just never leave your tools around for the kids to see. Some of them are weapons, after all. She suggests coming up with sexy exchanges you can even do at the breakfast table that no one else will notice. “Ds is a lot about codes and a language you develop with your partner,” says Mistress Darcy. “You could have it worked out that a certain look means something to you.” For instance, if your husband looks at you a certain way and then looks at something on the floor, that means pick it up and bend down in front of him so he can get a glimpse of your rear. “That kind of interaction can be completely erotic,” she says. “If he taps his coffee mug when it is empty, that means get me some coffee you saucy little minx. Or exchange text messages at work with a key phrase like, ‘I am coming home in three hours and I want you to be ready for me.’ Super easy and super fun.”
title: “Real Life Dominatrix Tells How To Bring 50 Shades Sex Into Your Bedroom” ShowToc: true date: “2024-09-11” author: “James Phillips”
Problem is, most people are still too shy or just too clueless about BDSM (Bondage & Discipline / Domination & Submission / Sadism & Masochism) to create their own Red Room of Pain-inspired nights. So we’ve enlisted the help of an expert to show you how to bring whips, chains, and nipple clamps into your bedroom. New York-based dominatrix Mistress Darcy (mistressdarcy.com) walks The Stir through how to turn “vanilla sex” into a passion so hot it would make Anastasia Steele jealous. More from The Stir: 15 Sex Tips For Women (From Men) If you are intimidated by the thought if it, that’s normal. Before Mistress Darcy was Mistress Darcy, she too had many reservations. “I thought it was pretty freaking weird,” she admits. But if something about Christian Grey’s sex sessions jumps out at you, “that little tickling in your tummy that’s saying, ‘This is interesting’ is a sign. That’s a flag going up that deep down somewhere that you might actually really be into this.” Though she admits, it’s not always easy for a women to ask her man to get kinky, so here is how to get started. Has Fifty Shades of Grey inspired you to liven up your sex life? It’s a great way to introduce it in the heat of the moment. And what’s he gonna say? Stop! Turn on the lights! Unlikely. “Talk about it afterwards,” she says. “He may say, ‘You know, that kinda really didn’t work for me. I wish I was the one that had my hands tied!’ Or ‘I really loved it. Let’s do it again.’ Or you don’t talk about it and you just keep doing it again and again, bringing in more and more gear every time you have sex.” But there is a right way and a wrong way to spank, she warns. If you just start hitting someone at full force, it’s more likely to terrify than titillate. “I teach couples the proper warmup and get them to a point where the chemicals in their brain take the experience from painful to pleasurable,” she says. “And then, I am telling you, it is possible to reach a state of euphoria from simply being spanked that you’ve never felt before on your first time if you know what you are doing.”
- A proper warmup is essential, especially for someone who doesn’t have a lot of experience with corporal punishment.
- You want to get blood to the surface of the skin because the more red your skin is, the more blood that is flowing, the less it is going to hurt, and the more pain you are going to be able to take. You can rub it, pat it, do light taps, or squeeze. You can alternate between light and harder touches gradually building up the intensity. **Just never leave your tools around for the kids to see. Some of them are weapons, after all. She suggests coming up with sexy exchanges you can even do at the breakfast table that no one else will notice. “Ds is a lot about codes and a language you develop with your partner,” says Mistress Darcy. “You could have it worked out that a certain look means something to you.” For instance, if your husband looks at you a certain way and then looks at something on the floor, that means pick it up and bend down in front of him so he can get a glimpse of your rear. “That kind of interaction can be completely erotic,” she says. “If he taps his coffee mug when it is empty, that means get me some coffee you saucy little minx. Or exchange text messages at work with a key phrase like, ‘I am coming home in three hours and I want you to be ready for me.’ Super easy and super fun.”
