One mom of a teenage boy made a strong case for preparing sons to have consensual sex and only consensual sex while way from home. Part of her solution: Get confirmation via text message from a girl before sex. Just in case later on things get, you know, murky. So here’s how I see this safe-sext conversation going down. More from The Stir: Oral Sex in Second Grade: Who Is Teaching These Kids? Freddy: Roxy, will you have sex with me? Roxy: WTF, put your damn phone away Freddy: No, I have to do this before we have sex. Do you consent to sex with me? Roxy: You’re spoiling the mood Freddy: But will you Roxy: Why do you need to do this via text weirdo Freddy: Just in case you try and accuse me of rape later on Roxy: O_O Freddy: LOL Roxy: That’s not even a thing asshole Freddy: I’m not saying you’d ever do that! I just promised my mom And so much for Freddy’s sex life. This isn’t going to work any better than those consensual sex conversations we were all supposed to be happening in the mid-90s. (Anyone else remember?) Sex doesn’t work like that. Worse, this little exercise teaches boys that girls lie about consensual sex — that there’s some duplicitous/flaky/psycho vixen out there waiting to trap your DS with false rape allegations. But the truth is, false rape allegations are extremely rare. We need to stop telling our sons that false rape accusations are a thing, because they’re not. But binge drinking? That is definitely a thing. And it’s a much bigger problem. Before the “misunderstanding” about sex there is the alcohol. Before it gets to that (whatever THAT is) we need to work on teaching our kids not to get crazy drunk — our daughters and our sons. Or is that too awkward and uncomfortable a conversation? What kinds of conversations about alcohol have you had with your teen, if any? Image via Ken Banks/Flickr
title: “Mom Teaches Son About Consensual Sex In Twisted Way” ShowToc: true date: “2024-09-01” author: “Lynn Mcgrath”
One mom of a teenage boy made a strong case for preparing sons to have consensual sex and only consensual sex while way from home. Part of her solution: Get confirmation via text message from a girl before sex. Just in case later on things get, you know, murky. So here’s how I see this safe-sext conversation going down. More from The Stir: Oral Sex in Second Grade: Who Is Teaching These Kids? Freddy: Roxy, will you have sex with me? Roxy: WTF, put your damn phone away Freddy: No, I have to do this before we have sex. Do you consent to sex with me? Roxy: You’re spoiling the mood Freddy: But will you Roxy: Why do you need to do this via text weirdo Freddy: Just in case you try and accuse me of rape later on Roxy: O_O Freddy: LOL Roxy: That’s not even a thing asshole Freddy: I’m not saying you’d ever do that! I just promised my mom And so much for Freddy’s sex life. This isn’t going to work any better than those consensual sex conversations we were all supposed to be happening in the mid-90s. (Anyone else remember?) Sex doesn’t work like that. Worse, this little exercise teaches boys that girls lie about consensual sex — that there’s some duplicitous/flaky/psycho vixen out there waiting to trap your DS with false rape allegations. But the truth is, false rape allegations are extremely rare. We need to stop telling our sons that false rape accusations are a thing, because they’re not. But binge drinking? That is definitely a thing. And it’s a much bigger problem. Before the “misunderstanding” about sex there is the alcohol. Before it gets to that (whatever THAT is) we need to work on teaching our kids not to get crazy drunk — our daughters and our sons. Or is that too awkward and uncomfortable a conversation? What kinds of conversations about alcohol have you had with your teen, if any? Image via Ken Banks/Flickr
title: “Mom Teaches Son About Consensual Sex In Twisted Way” ShowToc: true date: “2024-09-23” author: “Raul Groves”
One mom of a teenage boy made a strong case for preparing sons to have consensual sex and only consensual sex while way from home. Part of her solution: Get confirmation via text message from a girl before sex. Just in case later on things get, you know, murky. So here’s how I see this safe-sext conversation going down. More from The Stir: Oral Sex in Second Grade: Who Is Teaching These Kids? Freddy: Roxy, will you have sex with me? Roxy: WTF, put your damn phone away Freddy: No, I have to do this before we have sex. Do you consent to sex with me? Roxy: You’re spoiling the mood Freddy: But will you Roxy: Why do you need to do this via text weirdo Freddy: Just in case you try and accuse me of rape later on Roxy: O_O Freddy: LOL Roxy: That’s not even a thing asshole Freddy: I’m not saying you’d ever do that! I just promised my mom And so much for Freddy’s sex life. This isn’t going to work any better than those consensual sex conversations we were all supposed to be happening in the mid-90s. (Anyone else remember?) Sex doesn’t work like that. Worse, this little exercise teaches boys that girls lie about consensual sex — that there’s some duplicitous/flaky/psycho vixen out there waiting to trap your DS with false rape allegations. But the truth is, false rape allegations are extremely rare. We need to stop telling our sons that false rape accusations are a thing, because they’re not. But binge drinking? That is definitely a thing. And it’s a much bigger problem. Before the “misunderstanding” about sex there is the alcohol. Before it gets to that (whatever THAT is) we need to work on teaching our kids not to get crazy drunk — our daughters and our sons. Or is that too awkward and uncomfortable a conversation? What kinds of conversations about alcohol have you had with your teen, if any? Image via Ken Banks/Flickr
title: “Mom Teaches Son About Consensual Sex In Twisted Way” ShowToc: true date: “2024-09-16” author: “Clarence Smith”
One mom of a teenage boy made a strong case for preparing sons to have consensual sex and only consensual sex while way from home. Part of her solution: Get confirmation via text message from a girl before sex. Just in case later on things get, you know, murky. So here’s how I see this safe-sext conversation going down. More from The Stir: Oral Sex in Second Grade: Who Is Teaching These Kids? Freddy: Roxy, will you have sex with me? Roxy: WTF, put your damn phone away Freddy: No, I have to do this before we have sex. Do you consent to sex with me? Roxy: You’re spoiling the mood Freddy: But will you Roxy: Why do you need to do this via text weirdo Freddy: Just in case you try and accuse me of rape later on Roxy: O_O Freddy: LOL Roxy: That’s not even a thing asshole Freddy: I’m not saying you’d ever do that! I just promised my mom And so much for Freddy’s sex life. This isn’t going to work any better than those consensual sex conversations we were all supposed to be happening in the mid-90s. (Anyone else remember?) Sex doesn’t work like that. Worse, this little exercise teaches boys that girls lie about consensual sex — that there’s some duplicitous/flaky/psycho vixen out there waiting to trap your DS with false rape allegations. But the truth is, false rape allegations are extremely rare. We need to stop telling our sons that false rape accusations are a thing, because they’re not. But binge drinking? That is definitely a thing. And it’s a much bigger problem. Before the “misunderstanding” about sex there is the alcohol. Before it gets to that (whatever THAT is) we need to work on teaching our kids not to get crazy drunk — our daughters and our sons. Or is that too awkward and uncomfortable a conversation? What kinds of conversations about alcohol have you had with your teen, if any? Image via Ken Banks/Flickr
title: “Mom Teaches Son About Consensual Sex In Twisted Way” ShowToc: true date: “2024-10-11” author: “Nellie Morgan”
One mom of a teenage boy made a strong case for preparing sons to have consensual sex and only consensual sex while way from home. Part of her solution: Get confirmation via text message from a girl before sex. Just in case later on things get, you know, murky. So here’s how I see this safe-sext conversation going down. More from The Stir: Oral Sex in Second Grade: Who Is Teaching These Kids? Freddy: Roxy, will you have sex with me? Roxy: WTF, put your damn phone away Freddy: No, I have to do this before we have sex. Do you consent to sex with me? Roxy: You’re spoiling the mood Freddy: But will you Roxy: Why do you need to do this via text weirdo Freddy: Just in case you try and accuse me of rape later on Roxy: O_O Freddy: LOL Roxy: That’s not even a thing asshole Freddy: I’m not saying you’d ever do that! I just promised my mom And so much for Freddy’s sex life. This isn’t going to work any better than those consensual sex conversations we were all supposed to be happening in the mid-90s. (Anyone else remember?) Sex doesn’t work like that. Worse, this little exercise teaches boys that girls lie about consensual sex — that there’s some duplicitous/flaky/psycho vixen out there waiting to trap your DS with false rape allegations. But the truth is, false rape allegations are extremely rare. We need to stop telling our sons that false rape accusations are a thing, because they’re not. But binge drinking? That is definitely a thing. And it’s a much bigger problem. Before the “misunderstanding” about sex there is the alcohol. Before it gets to that (whatever THAT is) we need to work on teaching our kids not to get crazy drunk — our daughters and our sons. Or is that too awkward and uncomfortable a conversation? What kinds of conversations about alcohol have you had with your teen, if any? Image via Ken Banks/Flickr
title: “Mom Teaches Son About Consensual Sex In Twisted Way” ShowToc: true date: “2024-09-24” author: “James Romero”
One mom of a teenage boy made a strong case for preparing sons to have consensual sex and only consensual sex while way from home. Part of her solution: Get confirmation via text message from a girl before sex. Just in case later on things get, you know, murky. So here’s how I see this safe-sext conversation going down. More from The Stir: Oral Sex in Second Grade: Who Is Teaching These Kids? Freddy: Roxy, will you have sex with me? Roxy: WTF, put your damn phone away Freddy: No, I have to do this before we have sex. Do you consent to sex with me? Roxy: You’re spoiling the mood Freddy: But will you Roxy: Why do you need to do this via text weirdo Freddy: Just in case you try and accuse me of rape later on Roxy: O_O Freddy: LOL Roxy: That’s not even a thing asshole Freddy: I’m not saying you’d ever do that! I just promised my mom And so much for Freddy’s sex life. This isn’t going to work any better than those consensual sex conversations we were all supposed to be happening in the mid-90s. (Anyone else remember?) Sex doesn’t work like that. Worse, this little exercise teaches boys that girls lie about consensual sex — that there’s some duplicitous/flaky/psycho vixen out there waiting to trap your DS with false rape allegations. But the truth is, false rape allegations are extremely rare. We need to stop telling our sons that false rape accusations are a thing, because they’re not. But binge drinking? That is definitely a thing. And it’s a much bigger problem. Before the “misunderstanding” about sex there is the alcohol. Before it gets to that (whatever THAT is) we need to work on teaching our kids not to get crazy drunk — our daughters and our sons. Or is that too awkward and uncomfortable a conversation? What kinds of conversations about alcohol have you had with your teen, if any? Image via Ken Banks/Flickr
title: “Mom Teaches Son About Consensual Sex In Twisted Way” ShowToc: true date: “2024-10-01” author: “Dale Bartlett”
One mom of a teenage boy made a strong case for preparing sons to have consensual sex and only consensual sex while way from home. Part of her solution: Get confirmation via text message from a girl before sex. Just in case later on things get, you know, murky. So here’s how I see this safe-sext conversation going down. More from The Stir: Oral Sex in Second Grade: Who Is Teaching These Kids? Freddy: Roxy, will you have sex with me? Roxy: WTF, put your damn phone away Freddy: No, I have to do this before we have sex. Do you consent to sex with me? Roxy: You’re spoiling the mood Freddy: But will you Roxy: Why do you need to do this via text weirdo Freddy: Just in case you try and accuse me of rape later on Roxy: O_O Freddy: LOL Roxy: That’s not even a thing asshole Freddy: I’m not saying you’d ever do that! I just promised my mom And so much for Freddy’s sex life. This isn’t going to work any better than those consensual sex conversations we were all supposed to be happening in the mid-90s. (Anyone else remember?) Sex doesn’t work like that. Worse, this little exercise teaches boys that girls lie about consensual sex — that there’s some duplicitous/flaky/psycho vixen out there waiting to trap your DS with false rape allegations. But the truth is, false rape allegations are extremely rare. We need to stop telling our sons that false rape accusations are a thing, because they’re not. But binge drinking? That is definitely a thing. And it’s a much bigger problem. Before the “misunderstanding” about sex there is the alcohol. Before it gets to that (whatever THAT is) we need to work on teaching our kids not to get crazy drunk — our daughters and our sons. Or is that too awkward and uncomfortable a conversation? What kinds of conversations about alcohol have you had with your teen, if any? Image via Ken Banks/Flickr
