“He is hoarse from screaming bloody murder for the last 40 minutes and he did it yesterday and the day before,” she explained. The mom said Koa even “bashed his head on the ground and has bruises on his head.” Even through the pain, tears, and bloody-murder screams from her son in the backseat, Van Sickle dropped some major truth bombs about the harsh realities of parenting. “When you feel like you’re going insane, and that you’re a failure as a parent, you just remind yourself that you are doing the best that you can and that you’re normal,” she said. Those tears and tantrums “are the stuff we fight through and we go through because these babies matter and because we love them,” she added. “To any mom losing your ever-loving mind and keeps comparing yourself to moms that seem so perfect on social media, I’m here to tell you that this is what this is like. And it’s okay, you’re okay, and we’re gonna make it.” No amount of sh*tty comments or judgments can change that. “We’re are doing the best we know how,” Van Sickle said in the post accompanying her video. Every single mom “who feels like she’s losing her everloving mind … you’re not alone, and NONE of us have it together.”