So I asked 19 women about how they flirt using their body language, and the responses were intriguing, honest, and most of all, fun. This may seem simple but I’ve tried to smile more AND smize more — I have natural resting bitch face, which doesn’t always communicate what I want it to." [I definitely] crack more jokes and [I am] very very aware of how [hold] their attention…I’ve noticed [lots] of nodding when I’m listening [as] a gesture of affirmation and to show my presence in the conversation. [Also,] I’m a dancer so [I love] any situation where I can show off… Also noticed I do this thing where I sometimes try to deepen my voice a [little] and make it raspy to try to be sexy." “When I’m nervous (flirting makes me nervous) I play with my hair. I have a whole bunch of brown curly hair that is usually very messy, and I tend to play with I️t or push [it] back when I’m talking to people.” When I flirt with men I find I tend to do different things that instead might subtly bring attention to my legs or my ass… [while] with women I tend to try to emphasize my more gender neutral or butch qualities." In terms of flirting with non-binary people? All bets are off. I think I tend to flirt more subtly when people have a gender neutral or androgynous appearance [and] I think I smile more." Interviews have been edited and condensed for clarity.
title: “How Curvy Women Can Use Body Language To Flirt” ShowToc: true date: “2024-10-16” author: “Thomas Bell”
So I asked 19 women about how they flirt using their body language, and the responses were intriguing, honest, and most of all, fun. This may seem simple but I’ve tried to smile more AND smize more — I have natural resting bitch face, which doesn’t always communicate what I want it to." [I definitely] crack more jokes and [I am] very very aware of how [hold] their attention…I’ve noticed [lots] of nodding when I’m listening [as] a gesture of affirmation and to show my presence in the conversation. [Also,] I’m a dancer so [I love] any situation where I can show off… Also noticed I do this thing where I sometimes try to deepen my voice a [little] and make it raspy to try to be sexy." “When I’m nervous (flirting makes me nervous) I play with my hair. I have a whole bunch of brown curly hair that is usually very messy, and I tend to play with I️t or push [it] back when I’m talking to people.” When I flirt with men I find I tend to do different things that instead might subtly bring attention to my legs or my ass… [while] with women I tend to try to emphasize my more gender neutral or butch qualities." In terms of flirting with non-binary people? All bets are off. I think I tend to flirt more subtly when people have a gender neutral or androgynous appearance [and] I think I smile more." Interviews have been edited and condensed for clarity.
