Here are some tips on how you should ACTUALLY tell your girlfriend (or friend, or partner, or whoever) that she’s “getting fat.” The fact that you have an issue with your girlfriend (let’s use girlfriend, for argument’s sake) gaining weight isn’t on her — it’s on you. If you have a problem with someone you presumably love and cherish gaining weight, then you are the one who needs to resolve whatever body-shaming issues you have, not her. So for the record, no, if you don’t tell her, plenty of people will — and that DOESN’T make it OK. She deserves way, way better.
title: “Here S How To Really Tell Your Girlfriend She S Gaining Weight” ShowToc: true date: “2024-10-17” author: “Darrell Micale”
Here are some tips on how you should ACTUALLY tell your girlfriend (or friend, or partner, or whoever) that she’s “getting fat.” The fact that you have an issue with your girlfriend (let’s use girlfriend, for argument’s sake) gaining weight isn’t on her — it’s on you. If you have a problem with someone you presumably love and cherish gaining weight, then you are the one who needs to resolve whatever body-shaming issues you have, not her. So for the record, no, if you don’t tell her, plenty of people will — and that DOESN’T make it OK. She deserves way, way better.
