When you hear the term “swingers,” you imagine a variety of scenarios — some of them negative and others that may be positive. But let me assure you that this is a lifestyle that’s unimaginable until you’ve actually dared to darken the steps of a swingers event IRL. However, if you’ve ever wondered if this may (or may not) be something you’re into — here are 10 stories that will give you more insight than any Google search. Image via iStock.com/stephanie phillips It took a lot of love and cultivating of our relationship before we got to that point. At first I felt like, ‘I’m a mom, I just need to focus on that,’ but my husband reminded me that I was so much more and that I should still enjoy my life outside of being a mom." — AJ The guard let us into the neighborhood with a wink. We pulled up in front of the palatial home, which was completely blacked out. We were a little nervous. We talked for a moment and jumped out of our skins when the phone rang. The group was watching us and wanted us to come in. We were met with hugs and kisses by an extremely well-dressed group. Candlelight and music filled the downstairs. We drank wine, flirted until the host said, ‘Let’s go upstairs.’ There we found a dancer pole, more candles, and a custom huge bed. The four men laid down around the bed, the ladies chose a man, and the playtime began. Every once in a while, we switched partners or the ladies played with each other. It was elegant and a real rush. We have been in the lifestyle for 10 years and have met mostly sane, fun, uninhibited couples. It is not our life but it is a hell of a fun hobby." — PB More from CafeMom: 12 Women on Waiting (or Not Waiting) for Marriage to Have Sex More from CafeMom: 11 Signs You’re Having the Perfect Amount of Sex Three years ago, a girlfriend asked me if I’d like to visit a sex club … The organizers had arranged for two or three rooms, but they had allowed single men to attend, and those guys were mostly there to masturbate in the periphery while couples had sex on beds nearby. Sounded really unappealing to us. We didn’t mind being exhibitionistic, but that wasn’t our main goal. Mostly we were interested in swapping partners. … Sex clubs are fine for people who want more or less than that (anything goes), so it’s all about communication." — DS I usually take the Sub/BDSM route and I have a couple of willing participants who will spank me or do whatever I choose. Everyone has a mutual respect for each other and each other’s desires. Next year will be my third year going to Hedo and it is the one experience and one vacation spot that will never get old and will never change." — KG
title: “9 Real Life Swinger Stories That Lift The Curtain On The Risqu " ShowToc: true date: “2024-08-30” author: “Teresa Crawford”
When you hear the term “swingers,” you imagine a variety of scenarios — some of them negative and others that may be positive. But let me assure you that this is a lifestyle that’s unimaginable until you’ve actually dared to darken the steps of a swingers event IRL. However, if you’ve ever wondered if this may (or may not) be something you’re into — here are 10 stories that will give you more insight than any Google search. Image via iStock.com/stephanie phillips It took a lot of love and cultivating of our relationship before we got to that point. At first I felt like, ‘I’m a mom, I just need to focus on that,’ but my husband reminded me that I was so much more and that I should still enjoy my life outside of being a mom.” — AJ The guard let us into the neighborhood with a wink. We pulled up in front of the palatial home, which was completely blacked out. We were a little nervous. We talked for a moment and jumped out of our skins when the phone rang. The group was watching us and wanted us to come in. We were met with hugs and kisses by an extremely well-dressed group. Candlelight and music filled the downstairs. We drank wine, flirted until the host said, ‘Let’s go upstairs.’ There we found a dancer pole, more candles, and a custom huge bed. The four men laid down around the bed, the ladies chose a man, and the playtime began. Every once in a while, we switched partners or the ladies played with each other. It was elegant and a real rush. We have been in the lifestyle for 10 years and have met mostly sane, fun, uninhibited couples. It is not our life but it is a hell of a fun hobby." — PB More from CafeMom: 12 Women on Waiting (or Not Waiting) for Marriage to Have Sex More from CafeMom: 11 Signs You’re Having the Perfect Amount of Sex Three years ago, a girlfriend asked me if I’d like to visit a sex club … The organizers had arranged for two or three rooms, but they had allowed single men to attend, and those guys were mostly there to masturbate in the periphery while couples had sex on beds nearby. Sounded really unappealing to us. We didn’t mind being exhibitionistic, but that wasn’t our main goal. Mostly we were interested in swapping partners. … Sex clubs are fine for people who want more or less than that (anything goes), so it’s all about communication." — DS I usually take the Sub/BDSM route and I have a couple of willing participants who will spank me or do whatever I choose. Everyone has a mutual respect for each other and each other’s desires. Next year will be my third year going to Hedo and it is the one experience and one vacation spot that will never get old and will never change." — KG
title: “9 Real Life Swinger Stories That Lift The Curtain On The Risqu " ShowToc: true date: “2024-08-31” author: “Kathy Reis”
When you hear the term “swingers,” you imagine a variety of scenarios — some of them negative and others that may be positive. But let me assure you that this is a lifestyle that’s unimaginable until you’ve actually dared to darken the steps of a swingers event IRL. However, if you’ve ever wondered if this may (or may not) be something you’re into — here are 10 stories that will give you more insight than any Google search. Image via iStock.com/stephanie phillips It took a lot of love and cultivating of our relationship before we got to that point. At first I felt like, ‘I’m a mom, I just need to focus on that,’ but my husband reminded me that I was so much more and that I should still enjoy my life outside of being a mom.” — AJ The guard let us into the neighborhood with a wink. We pulled up in front of the palatial home, which was completely blacked out. We were a little nervous. We talked for a moment and jumped out of our skins when the phone rang. The group was watching us and wanted us to come in. We were met with hugs and kisses by an extremely well-dressed group. Candlelight and music filled the downstairs. We drank wine, flirted until the host said, ‘Let’s go upstairs.’ There we found a dancer pole, more candles, and a custom huge bed. The four men laid down around the bed, the ladies chose a man, and the playtime began. Every once in a while, we switched partners or the ladies played with each other. It was elegant and a real rush. We have been in the lifestyle for 10 years and have met mostly sane, fun, uninhibited couples. It is not our life but it is a hell of a fun hobby." — PB More from CafeMom: 12 Women on Waiting (or Not Waiting) for Marriage to Have Sex More from CafeMom: 11 Signs You’re Having the Perfect Amount of Sex Three years ago, a girlfriend asked me if I’d like to visit a sex club … The organizers had arranged for two or three rooms, but they had allowed single men to attend, and those guys were mostly there to masturbate in the periphery while couples had sex on beds nearby. Sounded really unappealing to us. We didn’t mind being exhibitionistic, but that wasn’t our main goal. Mostly we were interested in swapping partners. … Sex clubs are fine for people who want more or less than that (anything goes), so it’s all about communication." — DS I usually take the Sub/BDSM route and I have a couple of willing participants who will spank me or do whatever I choose. Everyone has a mutual respect for each other and each other’s desires. Next year will be my third year going to Hedo and it is the one experience and one vacation spot that will never get old and will never change." — KG
