As relationship experts and co-authors of The Heart of the Fight, we have five very important tips for you to follow if you’ve found yourself in the wake of of a heart break. Neither of you gets to take more than 50% blame. Despite what most people think, the point of a relationship is not to make you happy. The point of a relationship is to learn, grow, and develop yourself. What do you need to learn from this last experience? Mine the lessons. What would you do differently next time? You can process what happened with your friends but reconnecting never pays off in the long run. If the relationship isn’t growing, there is no reason to have contact. It just prolongs the agony. Instead, hang out with friends who have great relationships or who are working on it. Be with people who are willing to comfort you AND tell you the truth while you are mining your lessons. Look for evidence that it is true even if it is through the caring look of a friend. Do whatever you need to do to be extra sweet with yourself in this challenging time. Give yourself the love you deserve.
title: “5 Tips For Handling Your First Big Break Up” ShowToc: true date: “2024-09-03” author: “Angela Johnstonbaugh”
As relationship experts and co-authors of The Heart of the Fight, we have five very important tips for you to follow if you’ve found yourself in the wake of of a heart break. Neither of you gets to take more than 50% blame. Despite what most people think, the point of a relationship is not to make you happy. The point of a relationship is to learn, grow, and develop yourself. What do you need to learn from this last experience? Mine the lessons. What would you do differently next time? You can process what happened with your friends but reconnecting never pays off in the long run. If the relationship isn’t growing, there is no reason to have contact. It just prolongs the agony. Instead, hang out with friends who have great relationships or who are working on it. Be with people who are willing to comfort you AND tell you the truth while you are mining your lessons. Look for evidence that it is true even if it is through the caring look of a friend. Do whatever you need to do to be extra sweet with yourself in this challenging time. Give yourself the love you deserve.
title: “5 Tips For Handling Your First Big Break Up” ShowToc: true date: “2024-10-11” author: “Adrian Puga”
As relationship experts and co-authors of The Heart of the Fight, we have five very important tips for you to follow if you’ve found yourself in the wake of of a heart break. Neither of you gets to take more than 50% blame. Despite what most people think, the point of a relationship is not to make you happy. The point of a relationship is to learn, grow, and develop yourself. What do you need to learn from this last experience? Mine the lessons. What would you do differently next time? You can process what happened with your friends but reconnecting never pays off in the long run. If the relationship isn’t growing, there is no reason to have contact. It just prolongs the agony. Instead, hang out with friends who have great relationships or who are working on it. Be with people who are willing to comfort you AND tell you the truth while you are mining your lessons. Look for evidence that it is true even if it is through the caring look of a friend. Do whatever you need to do to be extra sweet with yourself in this challenging time. Give yourself the love you deserve.
title: “5 Tips For Handling Your First Big Break Up” ShowToc: true date: “2024-10-20” author: “John Willett”
As relationship experts and co-authors of The Heart of the Fight, we have five very important tips for you to follow if you’ve found yourself in the wake of of a heart break. Neither of you gets to take more than 50% blame. Despite what most people think, the point of a relationship is not to make you happy. The point of a relationship is to learn, grow, and develop yourself. What do you need to learn from this last experience? Mine the lessons. What would you do differently next time? You can process what happened with your friends but reconnecting never pays off in the long run. If the relationship isn’t growing, there is no reason to have contact. It just prolongs the agony. Instead, hang out with friends who have great relationships or who are working on it. Be with people who are willing to comfort you AND tell you the truth while you are mining your lessons. Look for evidence that it is true even if it is through the caring look of a friend. Do whatever you need to do to be extra sweet with yourself in this challenging time. Give yourself the love you deserve.
