I think it’s pretty normal to want to know all the details and to speculate on what’s going to happen next. It’s also really easy to assume that a person would know what to would do in that situation and to assume cheating is always going to be a deal breaker.  But women who dealt with their own cheating scandals, it seems like the reality is a lot more complicated than what they might tell their friends or share on social media. We reached out to 20 women, who requested to stay anonymous, and survived infidelity with their relationships still intact. Read on for real, and sometimes raw, stories about what it takes to keeping going after being cheated on.

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