The thing about not talking about money is that people can end up carrying some big money secrets. Secrets can lead to major shame, eating away at our self confidence — especially if you think that you’re the only one who’s struggling. (Hint: You’re most definitely not!) We reached out to 15 women who agreed to tell us the real story of their financial lives, including the the biggest secrets or shame that they’re keeping from spouses and other loved ones. From credit card debt to crushing student loans to losing a house to the aftermath of gambling addiction, these stories prove that even smart women can struggle to get ahead when it comes to money. And getting bailed out of their troubles did not end the shame. Click on for all the candid confessions that prove that finances are a topic we all need to talk about more. Shining the light on our darkest secrets is the first step to changing our ways. More from CafeMom: 10 True Stories of Money Nightmares While Parenting More from CafeMom: 10 Money Lessons Kids Should Know by Age 10 More from CafeMom: 10 OMG Texts About Money Struggles Are All Too Real (PHOTOS)