When it comes to getting divorced, there are tons of major decisions to make. Deciding when to take a wedding ring off might not seem as significant as figuring out how to tell the kids or how to divide all the assets. But just as wearing the ring is a tangible sign of commitment, taking it off if is a visible sign that things are really and truly over.  We talked to 14 women who’ve gotten divorced and asked them how and when they knew it was time for them to take off their wedding rings for good. Just like every marriage is different, every woman had a different time and reason.  For some women, taking the ring off was the last stage of a long grieving process. For others, it was a decision made in a moment of shock and anger.  Read on to hear their real stories. More from CafeMom: 11 Texts That Reveal the Messy Truth About Life After Divorce More from CafeMom: 10 Things Every Divorced Woman Should Do Before Starting to Date Again

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