In recent months, I’ve watched as some friends have worked on getting through their divorces and re-entering the dating scene after years of married life. They’re figuring out dating apps, checking out cute single dads at the park, and deciding if they’re looking for a fling or for a second chance at marriage. They’re also learning to negotiate the rules of dating as a mom, which has its own set of challenges. From watching them, I’ve come to believe that staying open to finding love after divorce requires some real bravery and a willingness to endure countless first dates — including some that are beyond awkward! I talked to 13 women who were willing to spill the beans on their first dates after their divorce. Some of their stories are sweet, some uncomfortable, and some are even sexy. But all of them represent the hope of finding love again. Read on and live vicariously!
